Knowing how you operate and respond in various situations will help you determine what energies you need to implement into your life and which ones you need to tweak a little or get rid of all together. Most of us however, don't want to get to know ourselves on a deep level and so we avoid looking within and instead respond to our external surroundings unconsciously.

All that we see and experience in life is just energy vibrating on different levels of frequencies. The people that
we see, the places that we go and the things that we feel physically and internally are all forms of energetic 
vibrations. Knowing this consciously and deliberately applying this knowledge into our lives is how we create the life that we
want.

Do you take responsibility for the things that happen to you or do you have a victim mentality?  Do you blame others for your own mistakes?  We must realize that our actions are creating the experiences that flow to us. If we feel like a victim every time something doesn't go the way that we want, we are hurting ourselves in many ways.